tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4405247121538604187.post7585151075935651679..comments2023-04-05T14:11:57.307+01:00Comments on Dorset Humanists website: Go MAD - the art of making a difference - a 'self development' bookcrabsalloverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05310281888611427075noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4405247121538604187.post-3073838687572601042009-12-10T14:03:42.139+00:002009-12-10T14:03:42.139+00:00Posted by Crabsallover on behalf of Josey,
Hi,
J...Posted by Crabsallover on behalf of Josey,<br />Hi,<br /> <br />Josey the anonymous is back. I wanted to add to my rather mono-syllabic comments which I left on the Dorset Humanist website in response to Dave E's remarks and David Warden's request for recommendations and comments on non-spiritual self-help literature but I am now unable to access the link . I shall write to this address instead and hope it does not disappear into the ether (oh dear, isn't that a bit of a spiritual term ).<br /> <br />To elaborate on my rather scathing indictment of self-help literature I would like to say that I have read and indeed benefited from such books in the past, even the ones with a spiritual slant ( I couldn't remember titles now). The spiritual references do not in themselves diminish the other content ( though they may make it harder to stomach) just as Ray Mears' occasional spiritual leanings ( I know, maybe an odd analogy) do not detract from the very practical survival skills and knowledge he has. In fact, I find the optimistic thinking brigade and 'power-of-the mind' believers just as problematic as they equally seem to diminish or by-pass the emotional pain I mentioned in my curt comments which I feel are a necessary part of the process of personal development and increased awareness, regardless of how privileged your upbringing was.<br />Dave E suggested Humanism might be able to provide more in the personal development area and I initially agreed but on second thoughts I am not sure it is big enough nor ideally suited. Also this function is already adequately fulfilled in my opinion by counselling services through the NHS ( of which I am currently benefiting) and charities such as Relate whose counselling services I have also made use of and found very helpful in the past.<br /> <br />I think the best role for Humanism is to provide a social framework and networking possibilities and this it does already excellently in my opinion, especially considering its limited size. Dorset Humanists is a haven for the non-religious in need of succour and provides the opportunity for people to express themselves.<br /> <br />In response to some of Dave E's other comments I would also like to add that again I feel Dorset Humanists already does a great job of engaging with the community and while there is room for improvement such as a better representation of different age groups and an increased membership etc. this does not diminish what they have already achieved and provide. <br />I am also not sure that Humanism can ever be 'sold' or become really big as it seems to me its values are about finding your own solutions. Big movements such as socialism or capitalism are about providing solutions for people and while these movements clearly served and still do serve a need, it seems to me that Humanism is more about personal responsibility, something which by its very nature is not going to 'excite' people into a unified direction.<br /> <br />I hope these comments have proved more constructive.<br /> <br />Kind regards, Joseycrabsalloverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05310281888611427075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4405247121538604187.post-16790405889425722042009-12-07T14:42:19.569+00:002009-12-07T14:42:19.569+00:00Hallo,
For some reason I could not post my first a...Hallo,<br />For some reason I could not post my first attempt at leaving a message so maybe I will be successful if I am officially anonymous but acknowledge myself as being Josey Loraine. I was interested to read Dave E's comments and very much agree with him. I am also glad to hear he has found a self-help book free of any reference to a super-natural power. I have not searched for any such literature myself recently maybe because I am a cynic as I don't expect there to be much available. My experience is that any real changes in one's life require a fair amount of emotional suffering and I imagine books don't sell very well on a message of pain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4405247121538604187.post-16259230853060941862009-12-01T00:54:03.452+00:002009-12-01T00:54:03.452+00:00from Cardiff Humanists http://www.cardiffhumanists...from Cardiff Humanists http://www.cardiffhumanists.co.uk/books.html I found: Lost Art of Being Happy: Spirituality for Sceptics (Paperback)<br />by Tony Wilkinson http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1844091163?tag=cardihuman-21&camp=1406&creative=6394&linkCode=as1&creativeASIN=1844091163&adid=030VGJMRWPG94FSAZCYC&crabsalloverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05310281888611427075noreply@blogger.com